Dating workaholic woman
These individuals set the agenda for a relationship, control it, and won't be inconvenienced by having to modify their routine or the plans they've made.
This type of emotionally unavailable person is commitment-phobic, and not relationship-oriented.
The "booby prize" in life is trying to understand or change the behavior of an emotionally unavailable person.
(The booby prize is thinking that you'll ever be good enough to meet their impossible standards.) Beware of someone who operates the relationship as if it should revolve around them." But, sadly, a few months later, your conversation changed to, "I can't believe he turned out to be so emotionally unavailable, and commitment-phobic." There are people who chronically meet and date individuals who, at first, seem so perfect for a warm, loving relationship. it's so easy to become intoxicated during that early infatuation stage when you meet someone who fits your pictures and seems like the perfect match. Our deep love for them can put us in denial of the fact that they are unavailable for an intimate, close relationship with us.